Womens Thoughts Money And Status
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In a women’s eyes a huge percentage of a mans worth is the job the man holds, before I go further, let me explain. You’re at a party and you meet six separate guys that all look identical and they explain what their life is like, all three are looking for a new job currently, lets see what you think of them.
Guy A – Is a 30 year old stay at home dad who cleans, does laundry, dishes, helps with the kids homework and workouts out 3 times a week, he also reads books, and goes to school were he gets straight A’s, he uses the internet and library to study a wide range of educational subjects and is always helping family and friends. He is always trying to educate and teach the kids moral lessons,manners and discipline He made his decision to stay home because economically at the time it was a better choice, and he believed furthering his education until the youngest reached kindergarten was the best decision. His wife was the bread winner while he went to school, but she then divorced him and he is now looking for work. he possesses skills in computers, human services, sciences, mechanics and more but does not have any formal papers to prove his proficiency, he also has a gap in employment of two years that employers frown upon when he was a stay at home dad.
Guy A – very nice, good father, very diversely educated, in good physical condition. wears jeans and a shirt
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Guy B - works as a mail sorter for a private company that pays him, 7:15 a hour, they work him hard for there is no union. He is tired when he gets home, and takes a nap but other wise helps out around the house a little bit. His brain has gone to mush because he doesn’t ever use it, and when he has time he uses it to relax and watch football. He doesn’t go out much or do much, because he has so very little money to survive. he has been applying to the post office for a few years now, but he hasn’t got in
Guy B – no education, knowledge he does have is fading with time, tired, no money.
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Guy C- works at the post office as a mail sorter and receives 20 dollars a hour and 30 dollars a hour over time. He is worked but not overly worked because of the union he belongs to. He is tired when he gets home and takes a nap but other wise helps out around the house a little bit. His brain has gone to mush because he doesn’t ever use it, and when he has time he uses it to relax and watch football. he goes out once a month or so and has extra spending money for fun.
Guy C- education, knowledge he does have is fading with time, tired, decent money.
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Guy D – works in sales and generates 70,000 a year lying and persuading people to buy products they really don’t want, or can afford at a over priced cost. He also uses his persuasive techniques to get what he wants outside of work, and is fairly charming, he has some knowledge but is a good bull shitter that make people belief he is smarter then he is.
Guy D- formal education, good money, cheats people, selfish, wears a suit
Guy E – is a hard working webmaster he spends 1,000 hours self promoting the websites he has designed and a 1,000 more perfecting and learning the computer languages needed to run that website. He receives a modest 500 dollars a month of earning from his website.
Guy F – created a website with front page in a few minutes, and decided to try to make money doing this, his father had money so they hired webmasters to redesign his website and used a large amount of money to promote it, they also used spam techniques to further sales, currently Guy F is bringing in 10,000 a month, and he wakes up when he chooses and goes to clubs at night.
My prediction to the thoughts of how women and other will view them
My guess is that guy A will be looked at as a loser, even though he is fulfilling all the things that make someone a good human being, that consisting of knowledge, strength, health, kindness, and spirituality. Guy B is also a loser and gets no attention from women and is considered low class, Guy C is the same as Guy B but will be considered a good hardworking blue-collar worker, and Guy D will be considered very successful and smart and will attract women despite him going against everything women ever say makes a good man. Guy E is also a loser unless one day his website gets big, Guy F is a smart successful entrepreneur that women love.
I put together this article because I was in discussion with two of my female cousins and my aunt who all agreed they don’t care how good or smart a janitor was they would never date him because he was a janitor or a burger king employee, I then asked what if they worked the same janitor job but owned the business, their attitudes increased toward a yes, I also noticed many men at at parties and social events and listened to women talk about these men behind their backs. My last observation was that for women none of this mattered, you can stay home, work at burger king or be a business women. Women can do whatever they feel like but their value changed very little.
What I think sucks about this is that your starting wealth and or situation has a lot to do with what you can do as a entrepreneur, and your job is heavily influenced by what the markets have, who you know, or how lucky you get, Basically you can’t control a lot of the factors that influence how much money or status your job gives, But you can daily make yourself a better person, it just seems in today’s society with today’s rules, being a good, or great man without a job or a good job just won’t due.
To all the men out there, use this as a learning tool, make your job your priority then work down from there.
I would love to know what guy you women think is the best man, and or hear comments about the article in a whole and what you think.
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I’d like to add a story from the guy’s perspective. When I was in graduate school I was broke. My stipend was enough to cover food and shelter and not much else. Still I wanted to pursue romantic relationships and find that perfect someone. Here are three actual events that happened to me:
I was on a date at a place that served dinner and had live music. The bill totaled about $80 after tip. I placed $40 on the table and looked at my date. She looked back at me confused. I thought, “Holy mackerel, does she not have any money?” No problem. I said, “If you don’t have it, I can charge it and you can pay me pack later.” She got up and ran out of the restaurant. I found a server, handed him my credit card, told him I would come back to sign, and ran out after her. Despite the half a block lead I caught up and said, “What’s wrong with you?” She said, “You’re supposed to take care of me.” I replied, “In class you said that women should be independent and not rely on men for their economic security.” Part of the reason I pursued this particular woman is that she seemed to be an ardent feminist who wasn’t going to be upset that I could not fulfill the traditional breadwinner role. I was mistaken. Despite her ability to support herself, and her claims that she opposes traditional gender roles, she wanted a man with money. I said, “If I paid for dinner, would that mean I was taking care of you?” She replied, “No it’s not the money. I don’t care about that. It’s just that a man is supposed to take care of a woman. What kind of man are you?” Obviously, I was a man without enough money to take care of a woman that doesn’t care about money.
I was a party and met this really great looking girl. We started to have a really fantastic conversation and we seemed to really be hitting it off. About fifteen minutes into the conversation I mentioned I was in graduate school. She immediately turned around and walked away. She didn’t even look at me the rest of the evening. Yes graduate school, you know what that means.
I found a woman with a real job who earned three times my graduate stipend. No need to worry about money. We were together about a year and she wanted to take a trip to San Francisco. “Ok,” I said, “you know my situation. Are you picking up the tab?” No. She went by herself, “hooked-up” with a guy she met at the hotel bar, and that was the end of that. If only I had enough money to go with her.
I’ve learned that money is issue number one. A poor guy has hurdles to overcome, the rich guy has choices – lots of them. Three-years ago I finished graduate school. I now earn enough to support 4 or 5 people with my salary alone. I’m dating a very attractive 120 lb. blue-eyed blond. The issue is she is employed in the low-wage retail industry
Well, in all honesty, I think if you love the woman and she us truly an equal partner to you as far as intellect, interest, lifestyle, future plans, you name it…, then I don’t see a reason why you should stop dating that very attractive blond. Just bare in mind that a lot of people will probably consider her to be a trophy wife. You cannot change what other people think or see in you. But the reality is, if you for yourself are ok with that attractive blond, then there shouldn’t be an issue. Money does seem to be an issue all the time, but it doesn’t have to be. As long as one partner in a relationship makes enough money to support both peoples living, I don’t think there should be a problem. I am personally married, and have a very decent job for my age (27) and have been supporting my husband financially. I paid his way through paramedic school, and supported him through 2 years of unemployment prior to that as well. I had many people ask me, so what does your husband do….well, to be honest, he is a stay at home husband these days… That usually didn’t impress many people. You have to just learn to not care what other people think. There are a lot of attractive, successful, high income women out there, sure. I have seen couples where both partners are very much into their careers. they work 14+ hr days, 5-7 days a week, they have plenty of money, but they don’t have time to spend it. they don’t have time to share each others company. deep inside they are proud of their accomplishments, but are they happy? So anyways, I guess my message would be, if you are happy with what you got, don’t think about what if…just sit back, enjoy life, spend your money, and appreciate your relationship. You don’t need a double high income. But it all depends on what makes you satisfied with your life. “My impulse is to walk away from the low-wage woman and say, “It’s not the money,” and find a financial and intellectual equal; a real partner.” With all my respect, that is a very irritating statement in my opinion. Sounds like you are trying to be yourself, and at the same time you want to pursue what society expects of you. Social status is so overrated.
So be honest now, I think through our hypothetical situations we can see just how women view money,power and status.
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