Wedding Vows From The Heart
I write my feelings daily, or whenever I feel the need, today I was writing, and what seemed to look like a speech that would be made after a wedding by the best man was developing. So I figured hey I can share these and help out man kind or use it at future occasions.
The Message
You are married now with the understanding that marriage is forever, til death do we part, in sickness in health, rich or poorer, there is never any room for, if this or if that happens or if someone does or doesn’t do a particular thing. Marriage means the merging together of two to make one, problems situations and hell will come your way you can count on it, when these storms do come it’s very important that you look to each other for support and understanding fight the good fight together, their will also be times when one section of the whole will be in your need, when these occasions come it is of the up most importance to strengthen the section in need immediately, always make your spouse number one in front of all others, they need to be your most immediate family, If and when their comes a time that the union feels hopeless or is at it’s wits end, ask for help, start your relationship over, rebuild and forgive, never hold past experience over another’s head, people live and learn , reap and sow as they walk through each day of their lives, God will sort out whatever each other deserves but it’s not up to you to make that punishment, For God has brought you together here today for a reason that was meant to be.
Marriage starts, travels and ends with a mind set, make sure yours is positive When there is just that pebble in the ocean of a chance that your marriage will survive , YOU MUST take that pebble and fight for your marriage as if your life depends on it, for if you do not you maybe a person who would write a message like this one, based on hindsight , live this life or you may be alone one day watching a movie and looking for that persons shoulder to cry on during the sad part, another day you could have good news and you feel really good, but it will never be as good as it can be without that one to share it with, that little pesky kiss, that bothered you sometimes, will be worth all it’s weight in gold when it’s gone. Always be faithful, when life tempts you remember life is not always greener on the other side
Sometime in your life you will decide to become fruitful with the sum of your two parts and populate the earth with others that posse characteristic from both the bride and the groom. When this happens it will open a whole new chapter to your life, watching them walk and talk and look up to you will feel like the whole reason, the only reason to live is to see their smile. When you bring your children into this world, I hope it’s with the understanding that you brought these children into the world to bring up and nurture together as a unit but not as a separate entity, you may at times do your nurturing in different but equal ways, but always together. The biggest gift you can give your children is to become a walking talking living example of what is right, you will not always live up to these standards but trying, and mending past mistakes is always a start. And lastly the biggest gift anyone can give to there children is a family based on a strong marriage that never ceases to stop trying to improve.
This message hinges a lot upon forgiveness but it is important that your partner can be honest without the fear of revenge, never put each other down, only up no matter what, because you are one in the same, talk plan, date do whatever it takes, the minute you feel a weakness talk it over, plan, improvise, overcome. This can really be done if you belief in the we are one together- And please bring the bible into your life, a whole successful plan has been laid out there if only you take the time to read it.
So please listen to this message for it may be the most important message one can give and receive on this most important day. Let this be your first guide to a everlasting marriage which ends with a shared tombstone and a beautiful couple gazing down upon future generations. I’m sure so many others only wished that someone gave this speech at their wedding
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